Was not very certain if I really wanted to view this film, some times Midler can be way out in left field. However, in this film Bette Midler, (CC Bloom),"That Old Feeling",'97 plays a very self-centered person who will stop at nothing to get what she wants and if it is a career on the stage, just forget about love or a husband and children. Barbara Hershey,(Hillary),"Riding the Bullet",'04, is a childhood friend of CC Bloom and in some ways they help each other, even though they are complete opposites. There is plenty of comedy, lots of fighting, and more drama than you can handle. Midler sings outstanding songs we all know by heart and it is a very entertaining film, but very very SAD!

Garry Marshall's "Beaches" is another examination of friendship and how it can be affected over time. This theme was expertly handled by Arthur Penn in his 1981 masterpiece "Four Friends". "Beaches" is just as powerful, but it's predictable ending prevents it from truly reaching greatness and all sorts of odds and ends stick out.

But maybe it's meant to be that way. It is based on a novel, unread by me, and for all I know it could be truly faithful to the source material. But I can only judge from the film itself. And for one, I am tired of the syrupy ending that was popularized by 1970's excellent "Love Story".

But despite that, Marshall has directed a very good movie here. He may be coasting lately, but "Beaches" proves he's a natural at the type of genre I like best: the serious comedy. We laugh so we may not cry. That may sound corny, but it's true and many of my favorite films are that kind of film: "10" (Blake Edwards, 1979),"The Man Who Loved Women" (Edwards, 1983),"Skin Deep" (Edwards, 1989),"The Apartment" (Billy Wilder, 1960),"The Fortune Cookie" (Wilder, 1966),"Harry and Tonto" (Paul Mazursky, 1974) and "An Unmarried Woman" (Mazursky, 1978) to name a few.

The performances are first rate, especially Bette Midler, whom I'm only used to in comedies. With this film and "Stella". she proves what a truly great actress she really is. She deserved an Oscar nod for this performance. Barbara Hershey is fine as always in the kind of role she can play in her sleep.

One thing that really irritates me is the term "chick flick", which implies that it's only a "women's movie" and men are not only discouraged to see one, but not allowed to even enjoy it. And people I know say that if a man enjoys a so-called "chick flick", he must be gay.

Well, I am definitely heterosexual and am affirmed enough in my manhood to see and enjoy these films. Isn't it about time we just stop the bull and admit that we like these films too? Action is O.K., gore is fine for those who like that kind of thing, but I'd take an intelligent and moving comedy/drama anyday over T&A. And if other guys can't accept that, they're missing out on some good films.

***1/2 out of 4 stars

People would probably be surprised to learn that the guy who gave us a certain ultra-cool greaser in 1950s Milwaukee also directed a movie about a decades-long friendship between two women of different backgrounds. The Academy Award-nominated "Beaches" isn't a masterpiece, but I like the focus on the protagonists' dissimilar childhoods, and the political issues addressed - albeit briefly - when one becomes an ACLU lawyer.

As the friends, Bette Midler (as a jaded entertainer) and Barbara Hershey (as an idealistic lawyer) put their all into the roles. Things come and go in their lives, and their friendship gets tested, but they have to push forward. The movie turns treacly at times, but overall I liked it.

Watch for Mayim Bialik - a few decades away from playing Amy on "The Big Bang Theory" - as the younger version of Midler's character. The rest of the cast includes Lainie Kazan, John Heard and Spalding Gray.